No, really: what do you want?  The question might sound selfish … or shouldn’t the answer be obvious already: doesn’t everyone know what he or she wants?

We are designed to live from our desires–that is, we are designed to love.  But our loves get disordered: we love the wrong things, or we love good things, but in wrong ways.  Our loves get derailed, by circumstances, by our own self-talk, by evil done to us, by evil we have done.  Our loves get distorted, by distraction, advertising, fuzzy priorities, time poorly spent.  We end up chasing many things instead of pursuing the one necessary, truer, better thing.

What do you want?  What would it mean to you to get that thing you desire?  And would you really like the person you would become?

Coaching is a way to have these fundamental conversations–and work …